Living the D/s lifestyle can be both rewarding and frustrating: while much is gained, we also have to balance the things we do, and the way we are, against the requirements of everyday life. We cannot force our lifestyle choices, or actions upon our children, nor can we expect others to always accept us for what we are. The Living section looks in detail at the practicalities of D/s and modern life, from negotiation to children, to disability




Safety is paramount. Personal safety both real life and online can never be taken too seriously. We should all be aware of the risks we take, and minimise them as much as possible. The Safety section discusses stalking, safewords, meetings and similar subjects. This section should be Essential reading for all.


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