The giving and receiving of a collar is the exchange of an outward symbol of consensual ownership. Performed between the Dom/me and the sub, it must not be misconstrued or treated lightly.
REMEMBER because this is the outward sign of consensual ownership it should, if the parties are honourable, be a long lasting sign of their love and devotion to each other.
The word "consensual" is very important.
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Do not be forced into giving or receiving a collar.
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Do not accept a collar (or offer one) unless you have both fully discussed and agreed the nature of the commitment you are making to each other.
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Remember ... negotiation is the foundation for a rewarding and pleasurable relationship that will stand the passing of time.
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In this lifestyle this is the equivalent of a wedding ring, and should be looked upon as the same. It is not to be taken lightly or misused.
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Before giving/receiving discuss and make sure you both understand the full extent of this commitment.
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Having discussed in great detail your compatibility you decide that you would like to offer/receive a collar.
You now feel that you have grown towards each other, and have come to the realisation that the next step along the path is a formal collaring.
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On a final note regarding collaring. The use of training collars has become popular,and can be used in three very definate ways
1. As an outward sign that training is taking place.
2. To indicate that ownership of the sub is to be only for a limited period.
3. As a symbol of future intentions in the same way as an engagement ring may be offered.
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